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For some people, it happens when they check their bank account and realize there's less money there than they expected. For others, it's when a bill shows up that they know they can't comfortably pay. Sometimes it's quieter than that—just a slow, creeping realization that something about the way money works in your life doesn't feel right.
For me, that moment happened in college.
I remember sitting on the floor of my apartment surrounded by credit card statements.
They were spread out around me like pieces of a puzzle I didn't know how to solve.
Each envelope had been opened and flattened out. Each statement had a balance printed in bold letters at the top of the page. And as I looked at them one by one, a heavy feeling started to settle in my chest that moved into the pit of my stomach.
I didn't know what to do.
College is supposed to be a time when you're figuring out who you are, exploring what you want to do with your life, and imagining the future you're going to build.
But that night, sitting on the floor with those statements in front of me, I wasn't thinking about the future.
I was thinking about how I had gotten myself into a situation I didn't fully understand.
Like a lot of college students, I had been introduced to credit cards early. They were easy to get. Sometimes there were people standing outside campus buildings offering free merchandise just for signing up. A T-shirt. A water bottle. Maybe a small gift card.
It felt harmless.
At the time, the idea of borrowing money didn't seem dangerous. It felt normal. Everyone had credit cards. Everyone used them. And when you're young, the concept of debt feels abstract.
You swipe the card and worry about it later.
At least that's what I told myself.
But later eventually arrives.
And when it did, I found myself staring at numbers that didn't feel small anymore.
Balances had accumulated slowly, almost quietly. A purchase here. A purchase there. Textbooks. Food. Nights out. Everyday expenses that didn't feel like a big deal in the moment.
But when those charges were added together and printed out on paper, they told a very different story.
I remember picking up one statement and trying to make sense of it.
There was the balance. Then there was the minimum payment. Then there was the interest.
It all felt confusing and I just felt dumb. Dumb for not understanding it all and dumb for getting myself in this predicament in the first place.
What did the minimum payment actually mean? If I paid that amount, was I making progress? Or was I just keeping the problem alive a little longer?
I didn't know.
And that was the scariest part.
It wasn't just that I had debt.
It was that I didn't understand the system I had stepped into.
No one had really explained how credit worked. No one had sat down with me and said, "Here's how interest compounds," or "Here's what happens when you only make the minimum payment."
I had entered the world of credit without a map.
So there I was, sitting on the floor, surrounded by statements, realizing something uncomfortable.
Money was already shaping my life in ways I didn't fully understand.
That’s when I started thinking about the future, but it seemed bleek.
If this was what my financial life looked like while I was still in college, what would it look like five years from now?
Would I always feel this way when it came to money?
Would there always be this quiet pressure in the background?
That night, something shifted for me.
It wasn't dramatic. There wasn't some sudden breakthrough where everything made sense. I didn't magically solve my financial problems in a single moment.
But I did have a realization that stayed with me.
I needed to understand money.
Not just earn it.
Understand it.
Up until that point, money had mostly been something that happened to me. Bills arrived. Expenses came up. Payments were made when they had to be made.
I was reacting to money.
I wasn't controlling it.
And when you live that way long enough, it can start to feel normal. You get used to the idea that money is always slightly stressful, always slightly uncertain.
But that moment in college wasn't the only time I felt that feeling.
In fact, it was just the beginning.
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Over the years that followed, there were many moments where I felt that same pit in my stomach when it came to money.
But instead of confronting it, something else started happening.
I started avoiding it.
Instead of opening my credit card statements and trying to understand what was going on, I started throwing them away without even looking.
If the envelope showed up in the mail, I would glance at it, recognize what it was, and toss it aside.
Out of sight, out of mind.
At least that's what I told myself.
But ignoring the problem didn't make it disappear.
It made it worse.
Balances continued to grow.
Interest kept accumulating.
And slowly, my credit score began to deteriorate.
I knew it was happening.
I just didn't want to look at it.
Avoidance can be a powerful coping mechanism. When something feels overwhelming, pretending it doesn't exist can feel easier than confronting it head-on.
But avoidance has consequences.
The longer you ignore a financial problem, the bigger it becomes.
And the more power it starts to have over your life.
At the time, I told myself that things would change once I started earning more money.
Once I graduated. Once my career progressed. Once I started making six figures.
But what I eventually learned is that poor financial habits don't magically disappear when your income increases.
If anything, they become more expensive.
The final straw came almost two decades later when I started seriously pursuing entrepreneurship.
Like many people who want to build something of their own, I had ideas. I had ambition. I had the willingness to work hard and take risks.
But there was one thing quietly holding me back.
My financial life was unstable.
Entrepreneurship requires a certain level of financial discipline. It requires the ability to manage uncertainty, plan ahead, and make decisions from a place of clarity rather than panic.
And the truth was, I hadn't built that foundation.
My habits with money: the avoidance, the lack of structure, the failure to truly understand how my finances worked, had created a situation where I didn't have the stability I needed to take the kinds of risks entrepreneurship demands.
In a strange way, my relationship with money had become one of the biggest obstacles standing between me and the life I wanted to build.
That realization was like a punch to the gut.
Because it forced me to confront something I had been avoiding for years.
If I wanted to build the life I imagined for myself, I couldn't keep treating money the way I had been treating it.
I couldn't continue to ignore and avoid it.
I had to understand it. And more importantly, I had to take control of it.
That realization marked the true beginning of my journey toward financial discipline.
Not because my situation was suddenly perfect.
But because I finally understood something that had been quietly true all along:
If you don't control your money, it will control you.
And the moment you decide to change that dynamic is the moment your financial life begins to change.
For me, that decision would eventually lead to the framework that became Freedom By Design.
But before any system could be built, I first had to confront the habits and beliefs that had shaped my relationship with money from the very beginning.